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On Love and Children and Superman and Super Powers and Letting Go.

I've been thinking a lot lately about where I have been finding joy and the many permutations of love in my life. As all of you know, knowing love through the lens of Jim's cancer, being his caretaker and then my deep, deep grief left me lost for a long time. And yet I also recognize that I was also found. We truly lived our love to the fullest—"in sickness and in health until death did part us". And so I know now myself more deeply. As I wrote a friend yesterday "I'm ever so grateful to have recovered myself. But also I know I had to do a lot of deep, pain filled work to get here after losing Jim who taught me so much on what love and joy is, wanting to die myself. It feels so good, so amazing to be back among the living. A gift of the gods." And through this process, I've learned that I have a new set of super powers that I am bringing forward to my Guardian Ad Litem work with children and families as well as to my own family, friends, and those wh...

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